Gothic charm school: an essential guide for goths and those by Jillian Venters

By Jillian Venters

A vital, absolutely illustrated guidebook to day by day Goth living

There's extra to being a Goth than throwing on a few black velvet, dyeing your hair, and calling it an afternoon (or a night). How do you gown with morbid aptitude whilst going to a task interview? Is there this kind of factor as growing to be too previous to be a Goth? How do you clarify for your grandma that it is not only a phase?
Jillian Venters, a.k.a. "the girl of the Manners," is familiar with the best way to be unusual and strange with no sacrificing politeness and etiquette. In Gothic allure university, she deals the crucial consultant to darkish decorum for all those that have ever hunted for attractiveness in darkish, unforeseen areas, embraced their individuality, and reveled in decadence ... and for households and buddies who simply do not comprehend.

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That if someone wears a lot of black and has a preference for eyeliner, she must be filling her every waking hour with unspeakable depravity? The Lady of the Manners hates to shatter your illusions, but that’s not really how it is. Goths are no more prone to those sorts of behaviors than anyone else. After all, doesn’t every after-school special feature some “normal”-looking blonde suburban teen getting mixed up with drugs? Goths do tend to be a bit more open-minded and accepting about a lot of things, but there’s no secret “You’re not a Real Goth until you’ve performed these horrible and unnatural acts” checklist automatically mailed out by a Goth Cabal once someone purchases hair dye, black eyeliner, and some velvet clothing.

It isn’t difficult at all to create an idealized version of who you want to be and live a fictional life on the Internet. No, what seems to be the hard part is seamlessly maintaining that fictional life and not being found out. From what the Lady of the Manners has seen, people who claim to be someone other than who they are always eventually lose the thread; they have to juggle too many different stories and eventually get tangled up in their own make-believe life. The Lady of the Manners isn’t sure why those sorts of people feel the need to represent themselves as someone entirely different.

Because of the stereotypical view that Goth is only for those in their teens and early twenties, these people worry that they shouldn’t explore this world of dark enchantments, that at most they can dabble in it every year at Halloween or when the fashion industry decrees that inky-hued velvet and black nail polish are in style for a season. The Lady of the Manners feels particularly wistful about these adults who think they can’t express themselves the way they want to, and encourages them to consider Goth something more than a mere costume they can put on once a year.

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