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If this unresponsiveness applies to your lover, or to you, try my suggestions for expanding your sound bites. TELL HIM ABOUT IT • Make some noise It’s not very difficult to make inarticulate sounds – to breathe heavily when you get turned on or to moan. Don’t be afraid of sounding primitive – it’s a great compliment to your lover. • Kiss him If you feel passionate, show him by kissing him in a shower of tiny mouth movements. If you feel really passionate, bite him – not hard enough to hurt but hard enough to give him a pleasurable shock.

You should be able to judge this by eye. If your man has relatively short ring fingers, he may be a lot gentler than he appears on the surface. And if you have relatively long ring fingers this may mean that, despite your fluttery femininity, you are highly sexed, confident, and waiting for the opportunity to explore your sexuality further. “W E ALL HAVE DIFFERING COMBINATIONS OF MASCULINE AND FEMININE QUALITIES THAT PROFOUNDLY AFFECT OUR SEX LIVES. ” Anne Fact check Testosterone is a male sex hormone produced by the testes and by the ovaries in very small amounts.

Avoid cheap ones at all costs or your room will just smell like a tart’s boudoir. You want him to walk into your territory, sniff the scent of a beautiful woman, and experience prickles of anticipation down the back of his neck. • Sounding off What kind of music sounds sensual to you? Are you someone who melts to Ella Fitzgerald or swoons to Norah Jones? Are you a passionate Rachmaninov aficionado or does Leonard Cohen make you seriously misbehave in intimate male company? Use melodies to nurture the erotic atmosphere, but don’t overdo it.